べき
beki
べき isn't "have to" — it's a ruler held over the situation
The picture A straight ruler of right and wrong, held over the situation from above. Not your circumstances — what the ruler points at.
Where the picture shows up in べき
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where the ruler points
これはすぐ上司に報告すべきです。
kore wa sugu jōshi ni hōkoku subeki desu
This should be reported to the boss right away.
With する, the set form すべき is more common than するべき.
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the same ruler for everyone
約束は守るべきだと思います。
yakusoku wa mamorubeki da to omoimasu
I think promises should be kept.
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over the line
お客様の前でそんなことを言うべきではありません。
okyakusama no mae de sonna koto o iubeki de wa arimasen
You shouldn't say that in front of a customer.
Saying べきです straight to someone sounds like a lecture. 「~したほうがいいと思います」lands softer.
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the ruler held up afterwards
もっと早く病院に行くべきでした。
motto hayaku byōin ni ikubeki deshita
I should have gone to the doctor sooner.
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where the ruler belongs
注意すべき点が三つあります。
chūi subeki ten ga mittsu arimasu
There are three points to watch out for.