还是/或者
háishi / huòzhě
Hold the question mark at the fork and you get 还是
The picture You are standing at a fork. Hand the question mark to the other person and it's 还是; say either road is fine and put the question mark down, and it's 或者. A sentence with 还是 never takes 吗. 还是 asks you to pick between two; 吗 puts one thing forward and asks yes or no.
Where the picture shows up in 还是/或者
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the fork you hand over
你喝咖啡还是喝茶?
nǐ hē kāfēi háishi hē chá
Coffee or tea?
Turning the menu round to face them, pointing at coffee then tea, and waiting with your eyes
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either road is fine
咖啡或者茶都行。
kāfēi huòzhě chá dōu xíng
Coffee or tea, both work for me.
Both palms turned up to say either one suits you fine
Put 还是 in a plain statement and it starts sounding like a question.
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pinning it to one of two
我们明天或者后天去。
wǒmen míngtiān huòzhě hòutiān qù
Let's go tomorrow or the day after.
Circling only tomorrow and the day after on the calendar and leaving the rest untouched
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the road you picked after weighing
还是你来吧,我不太会。
háishi nǐ lái ba, wǒ bú tài huì
You do it — I'm not much good at it.
Fiddling with the tool, then handing it over and stepping back
还是…吧 at the front of a sentence means having thought it over, let's rather do this.
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a fork with the question still inside
我不知道他去还是不去。
wǒ bù zhīdào tā qù háishi bú qù
I don't know whether he's going or not.
Looking at the empty seat by the door and tilting your head, not knowing whether they'll show
Even inside a statement, if a question sits in there, the word is 还是.
All of it in one picture
Sliding the menu across and asking coffee or tea hands the question mark over — that is 还是 — while opening your palms to say either is fine puts the question mark down, which is 或者. Circling just tomorrow and the day after does the same: the answer is closed, so 或者. Handing the tool over with 还是…吧 is the road you picked after weighing them up, and not knowing whether he's going keeps a question inside a flat-looking sentence, so it takes 还是 too. Question mark still standing: 还是. Question mark laid down: 或者.